The next time you are called to suffer, pay attention. It may be the closest you'll ever get to God.
Max Lucado
A ship in harbor is safe, but that is not what ships are built for.
John Shedd
We turn to God for help when our foundations are shaking only to learn that it is God shaking them.
Charles West
I have been driven many times to my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had nowhere else to go.
Abraham Lincoln
Our little time of suffering is not worthy of our first night's welcome home to Heaven.
Samuel Rutherford
Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong.
Peter McIntyre
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

LAYOUT OF “FOR GIRLS ONLY” PROGRAMME HOLDING @ EDUCATION
DISTRICT 1 FOR THE MONTH OF APRIL – JUNE. 2008

AGEGE: ZONE 1 GROUP 1
VENUE: GOVT JUNIOR COLLEGE
DATE : WED.30TH APRIL 2008
TIME:  10AM – 1PM

NAME OF SCHOOLS INVOLVED:

GIRLS JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL
GOVT.JUNIOR COLLEGE AGEGE
ILORO GRAMMAR SCHOOL AGEGE
ORILE AGEGE JNR.COMM.HIGH SCHOOL
STATE JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL
YEWA JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL

ZONE 1 GROUP 2
VENUE:
GOVT SENIOR COLLEGE
DATE : MON.5TH MAY 2008
TIME:  10AM – 1PM

NAME OF SCHOOLS INVOLVED:

ABIBAT-MOGAJI MILL SNR.SEC.SCHOOL
DAIRYFARM SNR.SEC.SCHOOL
GIRLS  SENIOR HIGH SCHOOL
GOVT SENIOR   COLLEGE
LAGOS BAPTIST SNR.SEC.SCHOOL
SANGO SENIOR SEC SCHOOL
STATE SNR.HIGH.SCHL,OYEWOLE


ALIMOSHO: ZONE 2 GROUP 1
VENUE: COMMUNITY JUNIOR GRAMM SCHL IPAJA
DATE : WED.7TH MAY 2008
TIME:  10AM – 1PM

NAME OF SCHOOLS INVOLVED:

ABESAN JNR,HIGH SCHL
COMMUNITY JNR GRAMM SCHL,IPAJA
COMM JNR,AKOWONJO
EGAN JNR GRAMM SCHL,EGAN
IFESOWAPO/ABORU JNR.SEC.SCHL
IGANDO JNR.COMM.HIGH.SCHL
IJEGUN JNR.COMPR.HIGH SCHOOL
MUSLIM JNR. EGBE
SASA JNR.HIGH SCHOOL

ZONE 2 GROUP 2
VENUE:
OKE-ODO JUNIOR GRAMM SCHL
DATE : MON.12TH OF MAY
TIME:  10AM – 1PM

NAME OF SCHOOLS INVOLVED:

L/S JNR.MODEL COLLEGE MEIRAN
MEIRAN COMM JNR.HIGH SCHL.MEIRAN
OLORUNFUNMI COMM.JNR GRAMM SCHL
OKE-ODO JNR.HIGH SCHL
ORISUNBARE COMM.JNR.HIGH SCHL ALIMOSHO
OLORUNISOLA COMM. JNR. GRAMM. SCHL
ALIMOSHO JNR GRAMM SCHL
STATE JNR HIGH SCHL ALIMOSHO
TOMIA COMM. JNR. SEC. SCHL, AGBADO


ZONE 2 GROUP 3
VENUE:
MILLENIUM SNR. SEC. SCH. EGBEDA
DATE : WED.14TH MAY
TIME:  10AM – 1PM

NAME OF SCHOOLS INVOLVED:

ABESAN SENIOR HIGH SCHL
EGAN SENIOR GRAMM SCHL
GOVT TECH COLL IKOTUN
IGANDO SENIOR COMM HIGH SCHL
IJEGUN SNR COMM HIGH SCHL
IKOTUN SENIOR HIGH SCHL
MILLENIUM SENIOR  SEC SCHL EGBEDA
SASA SNR HIGH SCHL


ZONE 2 GROUP 4
VENUE: OKE ODO SENIOR
DATE : MON.16TH JUNE
TIME:  10AM – 1PM

NAME OF SCHOOLS INVOLVED:

ALIMOSHO SNR GRAMM SCHL
IFESOWAPO/ABORU SNR SEC SCHL
L/S SNR MODEL COLLEGE,MEIRAN
MEIRAN SNR.COMM.HIGH SCHOOL
OKE-ODO SNR HIGH SCHL
OLORUNFUNMI COMM SNR GRAMM SCHL
STATE SNR HIGH SCHOOL,ALIMOSHO
TOMIA COMM.SNR SEC SCHOOL AGBADO

ZONE 3
VENUE:
VETLAND SNR. GRAMM SCH.
DATE : WED.18TH JUNE
TIME:  10AM – 1PM

NAME OF SCHOOLS INVOLVED:

IFAKO/IJAIYE
IJAIYE HOUSING ESTATE JNR SEC SCHL
STADIUM JNR GRAMM SCHOOL
VETLAND JUNIOR GRAMM SCHL
KEKE SNR HIGH SCHL
SONMORI SNR COMM HIGH SCHOOL
FAGBA JNR GRAMM SCHL
IJAIYE-OJOKORO JNR
IJAIYE-OJOKORO SNR
VETLAND SNR GRAMM SCH

REPORT OF THE “FOR GIRLS & BOYS ONLY” PROGRAMME HELD ON 9TH FEBRUARY 2008 AT 71, Kudirat Abiola Way, Oregun, Lagos.

The registration of the attendees commenced at 11.00a.m. While the program started at 12noon with an opening prayer.

An attendance of three hundred and seventy-three teenagers and a number of parents was impressive, even though we prepared for one thousand attendees.

We gave jotters, RWF bookmark calendar; vol.5 of FGO Newsletters to the attendees and questionnaire on HIV/AIDS, which was designed to get information on HIV/AIDS awareness. The completed ones were sent to the facilitator on HIV/AIDS for proper analysis.

Questions were asked by a good number of the attendees and justified answers were given by the facilitators.

A wide publicity was given to the programme in which we had a representative from Guardian News papers in attendance to cover the event and it was published on Page31of Sunday 24th February 2008 Guardian.

There was a session set aside for counselling in which our counsellors had opportunity of counselling some of the attendees that needed counseling. Eighty-seven people accepted Jesus Christ as their Lord and Saviour in the course of the program. This indeed is a success story.

There was provision made for sausages and Nestle bottled water as refreshment in which everybody in attendance was served and felt happy at having a nice time in the seminar.

The programme was sponsored by The Real Woman Foundation.

The seminar was a great success, as all that was planned for was achieved.






REPORT OF THE FOR GIRLS ONLY PROGRAMME {F.G.O} HELD ON 12TH, 14TH, AND 15TH OF MARCH 2007 AT MARYLAND, IKORODU AND SHOMOLU AREAS OF LAGOS STATE.

The program started at 8.30a.m with the registration of the girls and at 9.30a.m the seminar commenced with an opening prayer.

ATTENDANCE:
A total attendance of six hundred and sixty-seven (667) students from the following schools was encouraging:

1. Ayedere Ajibola Junior Sec. Sch.

2. Ogudu Senior Gram. Sch.

3. Ifako Comp. Junior High Sch.

4. Kosofe Senior College

5. Muslim Junior College

6. Ajegunle Senior High School

7. Ayedere Ajibola Senior High Sch.

8. Ajao Estate Junior High Sch.

9. Muslim Senior College

10. Anthony Village Senior High Sch.

11. Ajegunle Junior High Sch.

12. Ifako Comp. Senior High Sch.

13. Ikosi Junior High Sch.

14. Ojota Junior Sch.

15. Immaculate Heart Junior Sch.

16. Isheri Senior Gram. Sch.

17. Ikosi Senior High Sch.

18. Ogudu Junior High Sch.

19. Immaculate Heart Senior Comp high Sch.

20. Comprehensive Junior High Sch.

21. Ojota Senior Sec. Sch.

22. C.M.S Senior Gram. Sch.

23. St. Luke Junior Gram. Sch.

24. Gbagada Girls Junior Sec. Sch.

25. Gbagada Comprehensive Junior High Sch.

26 Government Senior College

27. Government Junior College

28.Yewa Senior Gram. Sch.

29. Lagos State Civil Service Senior Model College

30. Yewa Junior Gram. Sch.

31. Lagos State Civil Service Junior Model College

32. Majidu Senior Gram. Sch.

33. Oriwu Senior Model College

34. Zumratul Islamiyah Gram. Sch.


We also had forty-one (41) teachers from the above-mentioned schools and three representatives which include the Assistant Director of Education from Lagos State Education District II in attendance.

SOUVENIRS:
We gave Seven hundred and six (706) jotters and Seven hundred and thirty-four (734) Second Revolutions to the attendees. We also gave four packs of The Real Woman T-Shirts to the Government officials and transport fare to schools in attendance which totalled N9, 170.

QUESTIONNAIRE:
We gave out questionnaires to be filled by the students in order to get information on the rate of awareness on HIV/AIDS and Sexual Abuse.

REFRESHMENT:
Biscuits and pure water were provided as refreshment in for all the student in attendance.

SPONSORSHIP:
The programme was sponsored by The Real Woman Foundation.

SUCCESS STORY:
The seminar was a great success







REPORT OF THE FOR GIRLS ONLY PROGRAMME {F.G.O} HELD ON 8TH NOVEMBER, 2006 AT IBEJU HIGH SCHOOL, IBEJU LEKKI ZONE OF EDUCATION DISTRICT III, LAGOS STATE.

The program started at 11.30a.m with the registration of the girls and at 12.00noon, the workshop commenced with an opening prayer. The courses for the workshop are as follow:                                                                           

Ø  Etiquette 
Ø  Sexual Abuse, its causes and prevention.        
Ø  HIV/ AIDS; curses & prevention                                     
Ø  Personal Hygiene                                                             
Ø  Power of Choice                                                              

ATTENDANCE:
An attendance of two hundred and twelve students (212), and two (2) teachers was recorded from a total number of the seven (7) schools in attendance.  The participating schools include the following;

IBEJU SENIOR HIGH SCHOOL
IBEJU JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL
COMMUNITY JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL DEBOJO
COMMUNITY SENIOR HIGH SCHOOL DEBOJO
MAGBON ALADE JUNIOR GRAMMAR SCHOOL
MAGBON ALADE SENIOR GRAMMAR SCHOOL
ORIMEDU HIGH SCHOOL

FEEDBACK:

We had a question and answer section where the students asked questions on the courses they were lectured on, and the facilitators answered them. The feedback was not so excellent because most of the students were not so confident to speak or even write.

CHALLENGES:
One of the challenges we had was with the distance of the venue from town, because it took us about 2hrs to get there because of the traffic. Also most of our volunteer staff had to go with us and our bus was too small for us. 


REPORT OF THE FOR GIRLS ONLY PROGRAMME {F.G.O} HELD ON 18TH OCTOBER, 2006 AT ST. GEORGE’S GIRLS SCHOOL  FALOMO, IKOYI, LAGOS STATE.

We were given an approval to organize workshops at three zones of Education District iii. We held the workshop for Lagos Island/Etiosa Zone at St, George’s Girls School Falomo, Ikoyi on 18th October, 2006.

The workshop was aimed at inculcating in the female students the discipline needed to become responsible women in the society. 

The program started at 10.30a.m with the registration of the girls and at 11.10a.m. the workshop commenced with an opening prayer. The courses for the workshop are as follow:                                                                           

Ø  Etiquette                                                                          
Ø  Sexual Abuse, its causes and prevention.                       
Ø  Personal Hygiene                                                            
Ø  Power of Choice                                                             

ATTENDANCE:
An attendance of two hundred and sixty-five students (265), and twelve (12) teachers was recorded with an average of nineteen (19) students each from all fourteen (14) schools in attendance. Also in attendance were Three (3) officials of the Local Government Education District iii. The participating schools involve the following;

ILADO COMMUNITY SENIOR HIGH SCHOOL
ILADO COMMUNITY JUNIOR SCHOOL
KURAMO SENIOR COLLEGE
ST. GEORGE’S GIRLS SCHOOL
GIRL’S JUNIOR ACADEMY
GIRL’S SENIOR ACADEMY
KURAMO JUNIOR COLLEGE
AUNTY AYO GIRL’S COMPREHENSIVE
VICTORIA ISLAND SECONDARY SCHOOL
EKO AKETE JUNIOR SCHOOL
EBUTE - ELEFUN HIGH SCHOOL
EPETEDO SENIOR SCHOOL
ESALE –EKO GRAMMAR
KING – ADO HIGH SCHOOL 

FEEDBACK:
We had a very participatory question and answer section whereby most of the students asked questions ranging from Personal Hygiene, Etiquette to their Power in making choices. Also, we got a lot of questions from Sexual Abuse, and even though we didn’t give out questionnaires, we gathered by our question bank that a lot of the students had issues bothering on Sexual Abuse. We however counseled some of them after the workshop and encouraged others to open Email boxes and send us mails or call for counsel on any of our numbers found on the jotters given to them. They were also encouraged to open up to some of their trusted teachers. 

CHALLENGES:
We had challenges of some logistics as it pertains to chairs and tables. This was due to the fact that we couldn’t get enough chairs.




REPORT OF THE FOR GIRLS ONLY PROGRAMME {F.G.O} HELD ON 5TH JULY 2006 AT LAGOS MODEL NURSERY & PRIMARY SCHOOL GRA IKEJA, LAGOS STATE.

“FOR GIRLS ONLY” was invited to organize its seminar at Lagos Model Nursery & Primary School on 5th July 2006.

The program started at 11.30a.m with the registration of the girls and at 12.30a.m. The seminar commenced with an opening prayer.

ATTENDANCE:
An attendance of one hundred and thirty-six (136) girls from primary three, four, five and six was encouraging. We also had their Head teacher, some of the teachers, non-teaching staff and parents in attendance.




REPORT OF THE FOR GIRLS ONLY PROGRAMME {F.G.O} HELD ON 11TH FEBRUARY 2006 AT OREGUN HIGH SCHOOL MULTIPURPOSE HALL.

“FOR GIRLS ONLY” organized its second seminar at Oregun High School Multipurpose Hall on 11th February 2006 for teenage girls in Lagos Metropolis.

The program started at 10a.m with the registration of the girls and at 10.45a.m. the seminar kicked off with an opening prayer.

ATTENDANCE:
An attendance of three hundred and fifty-four girls and forty-two parents which totalled three hundred and ninety-six (396) was impressive, even though we prepared for five hundred people.

QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS:
Questions were asked by a good number of the attendees and justified answers were given by the facilitators and a medical practitioner.

REPORT OF THE FOR GIRLS ONLY PROGRAMME {F.G.O} HELD ON 14TH JUNE 2006 AT IKOSI HIGH SCHOOL.

“FOR GIRLS ONLY” organized its third seminar at Ikosi High School on 14th June 2006 for girls in both Junior and Senior School.

The program started at 10.00a.m with the registration of the girls and at 10.30a.m. the seminar commenced with an opening prayer.

ATTENDANCE:
An attendance of two hundred and forty-nine girls (249), a vice principal from Ikosi Junior High School and a teacher each from both schools.


RESULT AND FINDINGS.
A study was carried out on the awareness of HIV/AIDS and sexual abuse amongst the female students of Ikosi Junior and Senior High School. The sample population was 200(two hundred). Their ages range from 10-20 years.

In the study conducted, 100% of the sample population said they were aware of the disease while 94.5% knows that it damages the immune system.

84.5% of the sample population is aware that there is no known cure for the disease while 12.5% said there is a cure. As a result of the percentage that thinks there is a cure, awareness campaigns should be intensified.

18% of the sample population believes that the disease can be inflicted on people by witches/wizards while a larger percentage (85%) acknowledges that sexual contact is a major way of contacting the disease. This is quite encouraging but more work still needs to be done in educating the young ones about the various ways in which this disease can be contacted.

94% believes that HIV may eventually progress into AIDS while 65.5% believes that a person carrying the HIV virus may not fall sick in the space of 10 years.

To ascertain if they were aware of the means through which this disease could not be contacted, we asked if HIV/AIDS could be contacted through sharing of clothes; 68% gave a negative response, 28.5% believes it could be contacted through this means while 3.5% were not sure.

78% of the sample population is of the opinion that you cannot detect a person carrying the virus by merely looking at them while 18% said it is possible to know a person living with HIV/AIDS by looking at them.

88% of the girls have not been screened for HIV/AIDS while 8.5% have been screened. The reason being that only 7.5% of the girls are sexually active while 88% have not been involved in sexual acts.

On whether they would continue their friendship with a friend who is diagnosed with the disease, 53.3% said they would continue the friendship, 43.5% said they would end it while 3% were not sure of what they would do. This result reflects the mindset prevalent in the larger population regarding people with HIV/AIDS status.

14.5% of the sample population was of the opinion that persons living with HIV/AIDS should be killed so as to prevent the virus from spreading while 82% didn’t think that was necessary.

Only 10% of the sample population knows persons living with HIV/AIDS while 84.5% do not know anyone living with the disease.

On whether any close relative has made any sexual advances towards them, 8% of the girls said yes while the remaining 92% said they had never been in such situations.

58.5% of the girls also believed that when someone of the opposite sex gave them gifts, he had ulterior motives while 34.5% didn’t agree with that notion.

3.5% of the girls said they had  been forced by family members(male) to engage in sexual acts while 95.5% said they had never been forced by any male relative to have sex.

2.5% of the girls also acknowledged that they have been raped and this was usually done by close relatives, 66% said they had not had such experience while 31% gave no response.

A large number of the girls said they had never been attracted to a female sexually and they were represented by 68.5%, 3.5% said they have been sexually attracted to a female and even engaged in sexual acts while 28% of them gave no response.

QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS:
Questions were asked by a good number of students and justified answers were given by the facilitators.

For Girls' Only, a subsidiary of The Real Woman Foundation has the following core objectives:

1. To prepare girls in secondary schools for their future with respect to avoiding abuse and rejection.
2. To educate them on how to groom themselves so as to have healthy self esteem, good etiquette and also maintain a healthy hygiene.
3. To teach them how they can live balanced healthy and emotional lives, so as to become nation builders.

Topic under discussions are:
1.HIV/AIDS.
2. Sexual abuse.
3. Personal Hygiene.
4. Power of choice.
5. Etiquette

OUR MAIDEN OUTING AT OREGUN HIGH SCHOOL
We are delighted to inform you that the very first seminar organized by "For Girls Only" was held on the 10th of february, 2005 at Oregun High School.

The day started at 10am with the registration of the students and at about 10.30am, the seminar kicked off.

An attendance of about three hundred and forty (340) students and their teachers inclusive was impressive, even though we prepared for just two hundred (200) students. Two hundred "FGO" kits were packaged with each containing the following: Body spray, Everyday Sanitary Pad, Shaving stick, Close-up Toothpaste, One tablet of Toilet Soap and a Real Woman Mini book.

The contents of the "FGO" kits were bought at the market from the RWF purse, however, we are hopeful that the corporate sponsors we wrote to (such as Procter & Gamble, PZ Industries, Unilever, CAP Plc, Coca Cola, Nigerian Bottling Company, Bel Impex Ltd, among others) will respond favorably. Though the call for sponsorship is not yet closed as "FGO" will be running a number of seminars in other secondary schools in the course of the year and subsequently.

We thank God that all that was planned for was achieved. We give Him all the glory.

 
 
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